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Forgiving and asking for forgiveness is the most difficult
thing to do, and you know the things that are most difficult
are also the most rewarding. Forgiving removes the pain from
one’s heart and gives complete relief. May be you can
contemplate on this aspect of life and see if it makes a
difference in your life. I pray it does
THE SPIRIT OF
YOM KIPPUR
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The Ten Days Of Repentance end with Yom Kippur, the Jewish
Day Of Atonement, which is the day on which the fates of all
Jews are sealed for the coming year. This High Holy Day is
the most solemn and serious day in the Jewish calendar,
which involves praying for forgiveness for sins and
afflicting oneself as punishment for those committed in the
past year. Jews fast (refraining from any food or drink) for
25 hours from sundown on the previous evening until sundown
the next night, and are not allowed to work, bathe or wear
leather shoes. The fast begins with a special evening
service known as Kol Nidre (All Vows), and synagogue
services last for the whole of the following day until the
Fast ends.
Although it is a solemn day, Yom Kippur is also thought
of as a happy day because it is the time for Jews to cleanse
themselves of wrongdoings and reach a spiritual high.
Fasting is not only done as a means of affliction but also
because nothing is supposed to detract congregants from
their prayers on the day. However, children below Barmitzvah
or Batmitzvah age, pregnant women and diabetics are
discouraged from fasting, as is anybody whose health is
likely to be seriously affected by the 25-hour abstinence.
From a Jewish website:
...In the seventh month, on the
tenth day of the month, you shall afflict your souls, and
you shall not do any work ... For on that day he shall
provide atonement for you to cleanse you from all your
sins before the L-RD. -Leviticus 16:29-30
Yom Kippur is probably the most important holiday of the
Jewish year. Many Jews who do not observe any other Jewish
custom will refrain from work, fast and/or attend
synagogue
services on this day. Yom Kippur occurs on the 10th day of
Tishri.
The holiday is instituted at Leviticus 23:26 et seq.
The name "Yom Kippur" means "Day of Atonement," and that
pretty much explains what the holiday is. It is a day set
aside to "afflict the soul," to atone for the sins of the
past year. In
Days of Awe, I mentioned the "books" in which
G-d
inscribes all of our names. On Yom Kippur, the judgment
entered in these books is sealed. This day is, essentially,
your last appeal, your last chance to change the judgment,
to demonstrate your repentance and make amends.
As I noted in Days of Awe, Yom Kippur atones only for
sins between man and G-d, not for sins against another
person. To atone for sins against another person, you must
first seek reconciliation with that person, righting the
wrongs you committed against them if possible. That must all
be done before Yom Kippur.
Yom Kippur is a complete Sabbath; no work can be
performed on that day. It is well-known that you are
supposed to refrain from eating and drinking (even water) on
Yom Kippur. It is a complete, 25-hour fast beginning before
sunset on the evening before Yom Kippur and ending after
nightfall on the day of Yom Kippur. The
Talmud
also specifies additional restrictions that are less
well-known: washing and bathing, anointing one's body (with
cosmetics, deodorants, etc.), wearing leather shoes (Orthodox
Jews routinely wear canvas sneakers under their dress
clothes on Yom Kippur), and engaging in sexual relations are
all prohibited on Yom Kippur.
As always, any of these restrictions can be lifted where
a threat to life or health is involved. In fact, children
under the age of nine and women in childbirth (from the time
labor begins until three days after birth) are not
permitted to fast, even if they want to. Older children
and women from the third to the seventh day after childbirth
are permitted to fast, but are permitted to break the fast
if they feel the need to do so. People with other illnesses
should consult a physician and a
rabbi for
advice.
Most of the holiday is spent in the
synagogue,
in prayer. In
Orthodox
synagogues, services begin early in the morning (8 or 9 AM)
and continue until about 3 PM. People then usually go home
for an afternoon nap and return around 5 or 6 PM for the
afternoon and evening services, which continue until
nightfall. The services end at nightfall, with the blowing
of the tekiah gedolah, a long blast on the shofar. See
Rosh Hashanah for more about the shofar and its
characteristic blasts.
It is customary to wear white on the holiday, which
symbolizes purity and calls to mind the promise that our
sins shall be made as white as snow (Is. 1:18). Some people
wear a kittel, the white robe in which the dead are
buried.
See also
Jewish Liturgy generally.
The liturgy for Yom Kippur is much more extensive than
for any other day of the year. Liturgical changes are so
far-reaching that a separate, special prayer book for Yom
Kippur and
Rosh Hashanah. This prayer book is called the machzor.
The evening service that begins Yom Kippur is commonly known
as Kol Nidre, named for the prayer that begins the service.
"Kol nidre" means "all vows," and in this prayer, we ask G-d
to annul all personal vows we may make in the next year. It
refers only to vows between the person making them and G-d,
such as "If I pass this test, I'll pray every day for the
next 6 months!" Click the musical notes to hear a portion of
the traditional tune for this prayer.
This prayer has often been held up by anti-Semites as
proof that Jews are untrustworthy (we do not keep our vows),
and for this reason the
Reform
movement removed it from the liturgy for a while. In
fact, the reverse is true: we make this prayer because we
take vows so seriously that we consider ourselves bound even
if we make the vows under duress or in times of stress when
we are not thinking straight. This prayer gave comfort to
those who were converted to Christianity by torture in
various inquisitions, yet felt unable to break their vow to
follow Christianity. In recognition of this history, the
Reform movement restored this prayer to its liturgy.
There are many additions to the regular liturgy (there
would have to be, to get such a long service <grin>).
Perhaps the most important addition is the confession of the
sins of the community, which is inserted into the Shemoneh
Esrei (Amidah) prayer. Note that all sins are confessed in
the plural (we have done this, we have done that),
emphasizing communal responsibility for sins.
There are two basic parts of this confession: Ashamnu, a
shorter, more general list (we have been treasonable, we
have been aggressive, we have been slanderous...), and Al
Chet, a longer and more specific list (for the sin we sinned
before you forcibly or willingly, and for the sin we sinned
before you by acting callously...) Frequent petitions for
forgiveness are interspersed in these prayers. There's also
a catch-all confession: "Forgive us the breach of positive
commands and negative commands, whether or not they involve
an act, whether or not they are known to us."
It is interesting to note that these confessions do not
specifically address the kinds of ritual sins that some
people think are the be-all-and-end-all of Judaism. There is
no "for the sin we have sinned before you by eating pork,
and for the sin we have sinned against you by driving on
Shabbat" (though obviously these are implicitly included in
the catch-all). The vast majority of the sins enumerated
involve mistreatment of other people, most of them by
speech
(offensive speech, scoffing, slander, talebearing, and
swearing falsely, to name a few). These all come into the
category of sin known as "lashon
ha-ra" (lit: the evil tongue), which is considered a
very serious sin in Judaism.
The concluding service of Yom Kippur, known as Ne'ilah,
is one unique to the day. It usually runs about 1 hour long.
The ark (a cabinet where the scrolls of the Torah are kept)
is kept open throughout this service, thus you must stand
throughout the service. There is a tone of desperation in
the prayers of this service. The service is sometimes
referred to as the closing of the gates; think of it as the
"last chance" to get in a good word before the holiday ends.
The service ends with a very long blast of the shofar. See
Rosh Hashanah for more about the shofar and its
characteristic blasts.
After Yom Kippur, one should begin preparing for the next
holiday,
Sukkot, which begins five days later.
Yom Kippur will occur on the following days of the
Gregorian calendar:
- Jewish Year 5766 : sunset October 12, 2005 - nightfall
October 13, 2005
- Jewish Year 5767 : sunset October 1, 2006 - nightfall
October 2, 2006
- Jewish Year 5768 : sunset September 21, 2007 -
nightfall September 22, 2007
- Jewish Year 5769 : sunset October 8, 2008 - nightfall
October 9, 2008
- Jewish Year 5770 : sunset September 27, 2009 -
nightfall September 28, 2009
THE SPIRIT OF
SUKKOT
===================================================
I was struck with this phrase below... "My House shall be
a House of Prayer for all people." It is my dream, God
willing it will happen in the next few years. A place
where every one can walk in and feel at home.
I grew up listening to my Hindu, Zoroastrian, Sikh,
Muslim and Christian friends back in Bangalore.. that this
world is a railway (railroad) station in our lives... our
destiny is uniting with God. God only knows the truth, but
that's what I heard. There are many songs and poetry
written on the subject. We came into life with empty hands
and walk out of life with empty hands, there was a couplet
written about Alexander... what did he bring with him into
the world, and what did he walk with? My Grandfather
always advised me to attend a funerals for every wedding I
attend..he said, it will straighten out vanity and
fraility of life.
May this season bring a genuine sense of love in all of
us. It is beautiful.
Mike Ghouse
Mike Ghouse
By Rabbi Lewis Weiss*
In the brief five days between Yom Kippur and Sukkot, we
go from one of the most solemn days of the Jewish
calendar, to one of it's most joyous, "ach sameah",
especially happy. Sukkot is widely considered our oldest
festival, and at eight days is certainly the longest.
In the lead-up to the holiday, Jewish families have
traditionally built for themselves a temporary dwelling, a
sukkah, intended to serve as a reminder of the
portable dwellings in which the Israelites lived during
their 40 year sojourn in the wilderness, and, later,
during the fall harvest season. We have always invited
guests to our sukkahs to celebrate with us, and we raise
the Four Species: branches of palm, willow and myrtle held
together ( lulav), and an etrog (a citrus
fruit similar to a lemon) -- a symbolic representation of
both the diversity and unity of humanity. If we hope to
build a true Sukkah of Peace, we're taught, we must value
and appreciate every human quality.
The theme of human unity is in fact central to the
holiday. When the Temple was yet standing, Israel offered
sacrifices for all nations during Sukkot, and to this day,
we pray for the well-being of the world's communities, and
universal peace. We're taught that in the Messianic age,
the nations will celebrate Sukkot together in Jerusalem --
as it is said, "My House shall be a House of Prayer for
all people." It's interesting to note that this is one of
the rare years in which the Muslim holy month of Ramadan
and the Jewish holiday season coincide -- a faint shadow
of the promised unity.
As anyone has built a sukkah can attest, it is a frail
home, a place where it doesn't do to depend on material
security. We are required to be able to see the stars
through its roof -- a potent reminder that we lie beneath
the heavens shared by all God's creatures. The message is
clear: We are all but guests on a frail planet. If we
don't work together, our future is endangered, our
temporary structure will collapse. Furthermore, Torah
tells us, there's no one to pick up the pieces if we allow
our home to be destroyed.
The events of recent years have reminded us quite starkly
of our vulnerability: the attacks of 9/11; Hurricane
Katrina; the continuing wars in Iraq and Afghanistan;
Israel's wars in Lebanon and Gaza. It is this very
fragility that .... calls for negotiations toward a
two-state solution of Israeli-Palestinian conflict. We can
heal ourselves -- or we can condemn ourselves to further
suffering.
This Sukkot, let us resolve to strengthen our prayers and
deeds for tikkun olam, repairing the world, as we
struggle to find a way to dwell together in peace. Let us
recognize our common values and fate. After the conclusion
of Sukkot, Simchat Torah sees us completing our annual
cycle of Torah reading, concluding Deuteronomy and
beginning again with Genesis -- an opportunity to
recognize the eternal truth that we can always start anew.
Your involvement with Brit Tzedek is a crucial part of the
Jewish people's search for healing and renewal, as we work
together for peace and justice. As Rabbi Nachman of
Bretzlav said: "The entire world is nothing but a narrow
bridge; the most important thing is not to give in to
fear."
Spread over us the Sukkah of your peace. (Proverbs 17)
The Torah) is a Tree of Life to those who grasp hold of
it, its ways are ways of pleasantness, and all its paths
are peace. (Proverbs 18)
*Rabbi Lewis Weiss was ordained at
Hebrew Union College in Cincinnati. He is married to Rabbi
Faedra Weiss with whom he has three daughters, a dog, and
a cat. Rabbi Weiss is a board certified chaplain with the
Association of Professional Chaplains and the National
Association of Jewish Chaplains and is active as a police,
fire, and airport chaplain and with the American Red Cross
Crisis Response Team. He currently works as Jewish Staff
Chaplain for Clarian Health Partners in Indianapolis,
Indiana.
...On the fifteenth day of this
seventh month is the Festival of Sukkot, seven days for
the L-RD. -Leviticus 23:34
The Festival of Sukkot begins on
Tishri
15, the fifth day after
Yom
Kippur. It is quite a drastic transition, from one of
the most solemn holidays in our year to one of the most
joyous. Sukkot is so unreservedly joyful that it is commonly
referred to in Jewish prayer and literature as Z'man
Simchateinu , the Season of our Rejoicing.
Sukkot is the last of the
Shalosh
R'galim (three pilgrimage festivals). Like
Passover
and
Shavu'ot, Sukkot has a dual significance: historical and
agricultural. Historically, Sukkot commemorates the
forty-year period during which the children of Israel were
wandering in the desert, living in temporary shelters.
Agriculturally, Sukkot is a harvest festival and is
sometimes referred to as Chag Ha-Asif
,
the Festival of Ingathering.
The word "Sukkot" means "booths," and refers to the
temporary dwellings that we are commanded to live in during
this holiday in memory of the period of wandering. The
Hebrew pronunciation of Sukkot is "Sue COAT," but is often
pronounced as in
Yiddish,
to rhyme with "BOOK us." The name of the holiday is
frequently translated "Feast of Tabernacles," which, like
many translations of Jewish terms, isn't very useful. This
translation is particularly misleading, because the word
"tabernacle" in the Bible refers to the portable Sanctuary
in the desert, a precursor to the
Temple,
called in Hebrew "mishkan." The Hebrew word "sukkah"
(plural: "sukkot") refers to the temporary booths that
people lived in, not to the Tabernacle.
Sukkot lasts for seven days. The two days following the
festival,
Shemini Atzeret and
Simchat
Torah, are separate holidays but are related to Sukkot
and are commonly thought of as part of Sukkot.
The festival of Sukkot is instituted in Leviticus 23:33
et seq. No
work is permitted on the first and second days of the
holiday. (See
Extra Day of Holidays for an explanation of why the
Bible says one day but we observe two). Work is permitted on
the remaining days. These intermediate days on which work is
permitted are referred to as Chol Ha-Mo'ed, as are the
intermediate days of
Passover.
You will dwell in booths for seven
days; all natives of Israel shall dwell in booths.
-Leviticus 23:42
In honor of the holiday's historical significance, we are
commanded to dwell in temporary shelters, as our ancestors
did in the wilderness. The temporary shelter is referred to
as a sukkah (which is the singular form of the plural word "sukkot").
Like the word sukkot, it can be pronounced like Sue-KAH, or
to rhyme with Book-a.
The sukkah is great fun for the children. Building the
sukkah each year satisfies the common childhood fantasy of
building a fort, and dwelling in the sukkah satisfies a
child's desire to camp out in the backyard. The commandment
to "dwell" in a sukkah can be fulfilled by simply eating all
of one's meals there; however, if the weather, climate, and
one's health permit, one should spend as much time in the
sukkah as possible, including sleeping in it.
A sukkah must have at least two and a half walls covered
with a material that will not blow away in the wind. Why two
and a half walls? Look at the letters in the word "sukkah"
(see the graphic in the heading): one letter has four sides,
one has three sides and one has two and a half sides. The
"walls" of the sukkah do not have to be solid; canvas
covering tied or nailed down is acceptable and quite common
in the United States. A sukkah may be any size, so long as
it is large enough for you to fulfill the commandment of
dwelling in it. The roof of the sukkah must be made of
material referred to as sekhakh (literally, covering). To
fulfill the commandment, sekhakh must be something that grew
from the ground and was cut off, such as tree branches, corn
stalks, bamboo reeds, sticks, or two-by-fours. Sekhakh must
be left loose, not tied together or tied down. Sekhakh must
be placed sparsely enough that rain can get in, and
preferably sparsely enough that the stars can be seen, but
not so sparsely that more than ten inches is open at any
point or that there is more light than shade. The sekhakh
must be put on last. Note: You may put a water-proof cover
over the top of the sukkah when it is raining to protect the
contents of the sukkah, but you cannot use it as a sukkah
while it is covered and you must remove the cover to fulfill
the mitzvah
of dwelling in a sukkah.
You can buy do-it-yourself sukkah from various sources
online, or you can build your own. I built my own with four
4x4 poles and four 2x4 boards, bolted together and secured
by smaller pieces of 2x4 board. My walls are made from
canvas painter's drop cloth, attached to the frame by
D-rings and curtain hooks. It can be assembled or
disassembled in less than two hours by two people.
It is common practice, and highly commendable, to
decorate the sukkah. In the northeastern United States, Jews
commonly hang dried squash and corn in the sukkah to
decorate it, because these vegetables are readily available
at that time for the American holidays of Halloween and
Thanksgiving. Many families hang artwork drawn by the
children on the walls. Building and decorating a sukkah is a
fun family project, much like decorating the Christmas tree
is for Christians. It is a sad commentary on modern American
Judaism that most of the assimilated Jews who complain about
being deprived of the fun of having and decorating a
Christmas tree have never even heard of Sukkot.
Many Americans, upon seeing a decorated sukkah for the
first time, remark on how much the sukkah (and the holiday
generally) reminds them of Thanksgiving. This may not be
entirely coincidental: I was taught that our American
pilgrims, who originated the Thanksgiving holiday, borrowed
the idea from Sukkot. The pilgrims were deeply religious
people. When they were trying to find a way to express their
thanks for their survival and for the harvest, they looked
to the Bible for an appropriate way of celebrating and found
Sukkot. This is not the standard story taught in public
schools today (that a Thanksgiving holiday is an English
custom that the Pilgrims brought over), but the Sukkot
explanation of Thanksgiving fits better with the meticulous
research of Mayflower historian Caleb Johnson, who believes
that the original Thanksgiving was a harvest festival (as is
Sukkot), that it was observed in October (as Sukkot usually
is), and that Pilgrims would not have celebrated a holiday
that was not in the Bible (but Sukkot is in the Bible).
Although Mr. Johnson claims that the first Thanksgiving was
"not a religious holiday or observance," he apparently means
this in a Christian sense, because he goes on to say that
the first Thanksgiving was instead "a harvest festival that
included feasts, sporting events, and other activities,"
concepts very much in keeping with the Jewish religious
observance of Sukkot. See
Religious Beliefs of the Pilgrims and
Debunking a Popular Internet Lesson Plan.
THE SPIRIT OF
VIJAY DASHMI- DIWALI
===================================================
Dussera
or Vijayadashami, the tenth day of the bright half of
Aswin is celebrated as the day of victory to rejoice about
Durga's triumph over the demon Mahishasura, the
buffalo-headed demon. In the Northern states, Dussera also
celebrates the homecoming of Rama the hero of the epic
Ramayana, after his victory over Ravana, the king of
Lanka. In vast open spaces, Ramleela, the folk play with
music and spontaneous dialogues, retelling the story of
the life of Rama, are enacted till the wee hours. Songs
are sung in praise of Rama and people in thousands witness
this traditional theatre with its exaggerated costumes,
jewellery, makeup and drama. Larger than life figures of
Ravana and other demons are burnt on cold dark nights
with fireworks lighting up the sky.
Diwali, the festival of
lights, celebrates the abundance of autumn harvest and is
dedicated to various gods and goddesses. The festival also
marks an important date in the Indian calendar, as the
North Indian kingdom of
Avadha has
celebrated this as the last day of
Lord Rama's
long exile of fourteen years. As the citizens of Ayodhya
eagerly awaited their beloved prince's return, they lit
thousands of lamps to guide his flying vimana to their
city. The darkest night of the year gave way to a glorious
morning as Rama returned with his wife and brothers to his
ancestral kingdom of Avadha.
Diwali also celebrates the gracious nature of the three
goddesses, Lakshmi,
Kali and
Saraswati.
Dhanteras (two days before Diwali) is dedicated to Lakshmi,
whose blessings are essential for a prosperous, fruitful
and peaceful life. Kali-Chudash (the day before Diwali) is
dedicated to Maha Kali whose strength we seek to maintain
the wealth we have. Strength, physical, mental and
spiritual, is essential for all of us to lead a happy
life. Diwali itself is dedicated to goddess Saraswati.
Knowledge is the ultimate wealth, for it cannot be stolen
from you; it is also the ultimate strength, for it often
defeats brute force.

The Legends
The Victory of Rama:
According to the epic 'Ramayana', it was the new moon day
of Kartik when Lord Ram, Ma Sita and Lakshman returned to
Ayodhya after vanquishing Ravana and conquering Lanka. The
citizens of Ayodhya decorated the entire city with the
earthen lamps and illuminated it like never before.
Goddess Lakshmi :
The Goddess of wealth, Lakshmi was incarnated on the new
moon day (amaavasyaa) of the Kartik month during the
churning of the ocean (samudra-manthan), hence the
association of Diwali with Lakshmi.
Vishnu Rescued Lakshmi:
On this very day, Lord Vishnu in his fifth incarnation as
Vaman-avtaara rescued Lakshmi from the prison of King Bali
and this is another reason of worshipping Ma Larkshmi on
Diwali.
Krishna Killed
Narakaasur: On the day preceding Diwali, Lord
Krishna killed the demon king Narakaasur and rescued
16,000 women from his captivity. The celebration of this
freedom went on for two days including the Diwali day as a
victory festival.
The Return of the
Pandavas: According to the great epic
'Mahabharata', it was 'Kartik Amavashya' when the Pandavas
appeared from their 12 years of banishment as a result of
their defeat in the hands of the Kauravas at the game of
dice (gambling). The subjects who loved the Pandavas
celebrated the day by lighting the earthen lamps.
Coronation of
Vikramaditya: One of the greatest Hindu King
Vikramaditya was coronated on the Diwali day, hence Diwali
became a historical event as well.
THE SPIRIT OF
SUCCOT
===============================
This festival begins five days after the end of Yom
Kippur and commemorates the booths the Israelites
constructed in the wilderness and lived in after their
exodus from Egypt. During the eight-day festival, Jews are
supposed to live in a similar booth known as a Succah
(dwelling) - the walls are made of wood and the ceiling of
greenery to leave the stars visible. In countries such as
Israel where the climate permits, many people sleep in the
Succah, but elsewhere it is used mainly for meals only.
In synagogue, each congregant says a blessing over four
different species of plants - a palm branch (lulav), citron
(esrog), myrtle branch and willow twig - which are
representative of the four different types of Jewish person.
The middle four days of the festival are regular working
days - although the fourth of these, Hoshana Rabba (Save
Us), is treated as one final chance to purge the soul of
sins committed in the previous year. The eighth day of the
festival is called The Eighth Day Of Solemn Assembly (Shemini
Atzeret), when a prayer for rain is said during the
synagogue service.
THE SPIRIT OF
RAMADAN
=====================================
Fasting in Ramadan, (Ramzaan in South Asia) the ninth month
of the Islamic lunar calendar, is
generally taught with ritual precision: abstaining from
food, drink
and intimate relations from dawn to dusk. Ironically,
Ramadan is best
known,whether by Muslims or others the world over for its
exotic
culinary delicacies.
Ramadan, however, has nothing to do with feasting. The
spirit and
intent of Ramadan lies in a human transformation, with
hunger and
thirst being merely the first stage, the external dimension,
in a
month-long inner journey of struggle and discovery.
For starters, fasting is not solely about hunger and thirst.
The
prophet taught that God has no need for the hunger and
thirst of
someone who hurts others, violates their dignity or usurps
their
rights.The fasting of the stomach must be matched by the
fasting of
the limbs.The eyes, ears, tongue, hands and feet all have
their
respective fasts to undergo. The tongue's temptations, for
example -
lies, backbiting, slander, vulgarity and senseless
argumentation -
must be challenged and curbed to maintain the integrity of
the fast.
Consciousness of behaviour and vigilance over action are
meant to lead
to the most profound dimension of fasting: the fasting of
the heart in
focus on, and attachment to, the divine. It is then that
Ramadan
really becomes a source of peace and solace.
Fasting is meant to impart a sense of what it means to be
truly human.
We are more than the sum of our parts, more than mere
material
creatures or a series of conditioned responses. Different
traditions
have different names for it - soul, spirit, heart - but
almost all
argue that we possess an essence beyond our physical body.
It is
perhaps this recognition that accounts for the fact that
fasting is a
common practice in other faith traditions.
True fasting is self-purification and, from this, a rich
inner life
embellished with values such as justice, generosity,
patience,
kindness forgiveness, mercy and empathy - values that are
indispensable, especially mercy and empathy, to communal
life as we
know it.
The world has shrunk but so, it seems, has our empathy for
one
another.
Perhaps we should ask why is it so difficult to connect with
others?
One reason is that knowing about hunger is different from
knowing
hunger. Empathy is not an intellectual equation; it is a
human
experience. In our ivory towers, we are typically spectators
to the
human drama around us. Our hardness of heart often springs
from our
distance from the human condition of others. The poor, sick,
disenfranchised, oppressed - we have rarely walked a mile in
their
shoes, or even just a few footsteps. "Rest assured,"
cautioned one
teacher, "if you do not taste what it feels like to be
hungry, you
will not care for those who are."
That 1.2 billion Muslims are fasting concurrently speaks to
the
universality of fasting in transcending the barriers of
geography,
color and race. For fasting to be truly universal, however,
its
benefits must extend beyond the fraternal ties of Muslims
and must
extend to forging a common humanity with others. Each one of
us must
look within.
As an abrupt break in our annual routine, Ramadan will come
and go
with such stealth that we cannot but be reminded of our
mortality.
What is it that we value and why? The food and drink,
previously
indulged in with a sense of necessity, even urgency, were
reduced
with no dire consequence. Habits, customs, obsessive
behaviors like
smoking, too, were curtailed with relative ease in the face
of a
higher calling. What does it mean to be a global citizen
living in
Dallas, a land of tremendous privilege? How much of me
is really an
algorithm of consumption?
Though the annual ritual of fasting takes 30 days, its true
destination is endless. May we always hunger to discover our
heart.
Syed Ali
Fasting during Ramadan is one of the five obligations in
Islam. Muslims celebrate Ramadan as a season of penance
and purification and are thankful to God for His Mercy and
Compassion.
Fasting for Muslims is not a mere physical deprivation,
but Muslims observe fasting to become spiritually better
off so that they can become well-rounded individuals and
better members of society and citizens of the world. It
cultivates love for the needy and it motivates Muslims to
give back to the community. In this sense, fasting
instills virtues common to Americans, especially religious
freedom, self-control, volunteerism, tolerance and hope
for the future.
Fasting demands Muslims to be good at all times, not
causing or inciting harm to others. Any harm done by
Muslims during Ramadan or at any other time does not
reflect the spirit of Islam that fosters peace.
The act of fasting helps us to understand the plight of
the poor and to build solidarity within our own
communities. Many Muslims come to mosques during Ramadan
to break fast together, followed by evening prayer. They
also gather for taraweeh (a set of recommended prayers
only performed during Ramadan).
Muslims act on this sense of community by getting involved
in food drives, food distribution to the needy and giving
to local charities. This generosity reflects Muslims'
compassion and care for humanity.
Basit Siddiqui
Fasting with an American Flavor;
Muslims in the United States face special challenges in
celebrating their holy month "Ramadan", which began this
year on Sept. 23 and ends Oct. 22. While Muslims in the
Islamic world revive the daily rhythms of Ramadan -
streets empty at sunset, families congregating for
Ramadan dinners, or iftars (Breaking the Fast), and
later heading to the markets to drink tea until the wee
hours of the morning, comfortable in the knowledge that
they can sleep late because others will, too -
Muslim-Americans have to adjust Ramadan to the beat of
American life.
As we know, the Muslim fast is not meant for
self-torture or for restricting their culinary
pleasures. Instead, it is a beautiful gift from God.
Fasting is not merely abstention from food and drink; it
is a temporary cessation of eating and drinking which
enables attention to be directed to higher things and
thus making the fast more meaningful.
Here are a few spiritual benefits of fasting:
First of all, fasting teaches us compassion. Second,
fasting is an exercise in will-power. Third outcome of
fasting is improved physical health. Fourth, fasting is
a positive struggle again over our dependencies. Fifth,
fasting serves as a penance. Sixth, it is good for the
soul. Seventh, brings one close to God. Eight, fasting
increases the concept of charity, even a simple smile is
guaranteed to be rewarded, in fact sometimes a smile
does more to a human soul than otherwise. And giving
before being asked and giving more than what is asked,
offers contentment and joy which is priceless. Ninth,
fasting is one of the five pillars in Islam.
In this process, American Muslims are creating Ramadan
traditions with a distinctly American flavor - whether
it's fasting in the heat of competition, eating takeout
for iftar, or breaking fast with other faiths.
The Muslim experience in America is one of trying to
conform to the way society around us runs, In a Muslim
country, everybody breaks their fast at the same time,
so business conforms to that, but in America, we have to
conform to a different schedule, and that's the beauty
of understanding and diversity.
Many Muslim-Americans, are using Ramadan as a chance to
reach out to the larger community. Many invite other
faith neighbors to their homes for "Iftar". Many
organizations organize "Iftar" (Break the Fast) at their
Islamic centers, realizing the importance of interfaith
dialog. The Plano mosque recently invited community
leaders, neighbors, city and school officials to such an
event and this year event, as were past events, was a
positive experience of mutual learning and
understanding.
I hope, feel, and trust that there is sufficient common
ground for Muslims and people of other faiths to
continue to meet, understand each other, join hands and
move together in the Path of Truth, Peace, and Justice,
the Path of God. Not only in Ramadan but everyday of
our lives.
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Zulfi Ahmed
Here are my two cents.....Nothing theologically heavy,
more on the light side!!!! -zulfi
Luqman, the wise
one, who hailed from Sudan in the pre-Islamic period
said, “When the stomach is full, the intellect begins
to sleep. Wisdom becomes mute and the parts of body
restrain from acts of righteousness.”
In the smug,
modern, pseudo-scientific terms, the pre-BC wise man
was telling us to eat less, stay on a diet, and that
excessive food is at the root of all health related,
mental and physical, evils. Nothing a dietician with
a four year college degree would disagree with.
I cannot claim
my first fast in the month of Ramazaan at the age of
12, that constituted denial of food and water from
early dawn to dusk, brought waves of wisdom or
tsunamis of intellect. But it did enlighten my
understanding of the hunger pangs that must have been
felt by the homeless, poor, and poverty stricken:
Those who cannot eat, not to check off a religious
ritual, but for sheer lack of food.
Fasting, for
thirty days in the month of Ramazaan for Muslims, is
parochial not just to Islam: Fasting’s root can be
traced back to the Day of Atonement (Yom Kippur) in
Judaism to the Sermon on the Mount, where Jesus taught
disciples on how to fast and pray. Followers of
Hinduism, fast on certain days of the month, certain
days of the weeks, or on specific festivals; Navaratri
– the nine day fast being most common. Buddhist monks
tend to fast in the afternoons as well.
One can easily
claim that fasting is the tie that binds all major
religions, from the ones who believe in the unity of
God to those who worship many, and those in between.
Fasting in Islam
is more than just denial of food or drinks from dusk
to dawn in the month of Ramadan, although that may be
the most fundamental requirement. Ramadan, for
Muslims, is the universal month of charity,
forgiveness, and generosity. At the core of fasting
lies its most valued tenets: character building,
self-discipline, divorce from worldly yearnings, and
spiritual re-awakening.
As one of the
five pillars of Islam, fasting humbles the body while
strengthening the soul. Cloaked as a pristine form of
worship, it is intended to weaponize the will to be
able to overwhelm the worldly desires, the urge for
sugar, caffeine, carbohydrates, and all. And if one
can control the primitive desire for food, the very
fundamental human want in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs,
one would have mustered the will-power to be less
material-prone, a principal taught by all great
religions.
During the
course of a lifetime, a Muslim would have fast for a
cumulative of 5 years. The thirty day repetition
every year during the course of a lifetime builds
endurance, shifts the paradigm, disrupts the normalcy
of the schedule, and compels the mind and body to
adapt to change, sometimes under severe conditions.
It is the
ultimate anti-addiction training. It is food for the
soul.
And if you can
really ‘just say no’ to the Krispy Kreams coming off
the hot oven, you can certainly say no to most other
evils in life, sugary or not.
THE BIRTH OF
B'AB
=========================
T HE
BIRTH OF THE BÁB
The Bahá'ís of
Dallas will observe the anniversary
of the birth of the Báb,
Prophet-Herald of the Bahá'í Faith, on Friday,
October 20, 2006 at 7:30 p.m.
at the Dallas Bahá'í Center, 4235
W. Northwest Hwy. Program is open
to the public and includes:
devotional readings, music and
refreshment.
Mirza 'Ali Muhammad, who took the
title of the Báb, which means
the "Gate", was the Prophet-Herald
of the Bahá'í Faith. He
was born in Shiraz in Persia
in October 20, 1819. He
announced the coming of Bahá'u'lláh,
the Founder of the Bahá'í
Faith, and was also a messenger
of God who brought an
independent religion to the people
of Persia. He proclaimed His
mission in 1844 and because of
His teachings, He and some of
His followers were persecuted and
martyred.
H e
proclaimed that the purpose of
His mission was the preparation
of the world for the
appearance of an even greater
Prophet who would reveal the
Will of God for a new
age. While the Báb revealed
and inaugurated an independent Faith
in mankind's religious history, He
made it clear that His central
purpose was to pave the way
for "Him Whom God will make
manifest". From 1844 until his
death in 1850, the Báb urged
his followers to develop exemplary
spiritual and moral characters and
to prepare themselves for the
advent
of the Lord of the Age.
The
early nineteenth century was a period of messianic
expectations in many lands. Deeply disturbed by the
implications of scientific inquiry and industrialization,
earnest believers from many religious backgrounds turned to
the scriptures of their faiths for an understanding of the
accelerating processes of change.
In Europe and America groups like the Templers and the
Millerites believed they had found in the Christian
scriptures evidence supporting their conviction that history
had ended and the return of Jesus Christ was at hand. A
markedly similar ferment developed in the Middle East around
the belief that the fulfilment of various prophecies in the
Qur'an and Islamic Traditions was
imminent.
By far the most
dramatic of these millennialist movements emerged in Iran.
It focused on the person and teachings of a young merchant
from the city of Shiraz, known to history as the Báb. From
1844 to 1863, Persians of all classes were caught up in a
storm of hope and excitement, aroused by the Báb's
announcement that the Day of God was at hand and that He was
Himself the One promised in Islamic scripture. Humanity
stood, He said, on the threshold of an era that would
witness the restructuring of all aspects of life.
In some respects, the Báb's role
can be compared to John the Baptist in the founding of
Christianity. The Báb was Bahá'u'lláh's herald: His primary
mission was to prepare the way for Bahá'u'lláh's coming.
Accordingly, the founding of the Bábí Faith is viewed by
Bahá'ís as synonymous with the founding of the Bahá'í
Faith--and its purpose was fulfilled when Bahá'u'lláh
announced in 1863 that He was the Promised One foretold by
the Báb.
Below please find a few short prayers from the Báb:
“Is there any Remover of difficulties save God? Say: Praised
be God! He is God! All are His servants, and all abide by
His bidding!”
“Say: God sufficeth all things above all things, and nothing
in the heavens or in the earth but God sufficeth. Verily, He
is in Himself the Knower, the Sustainer, the Omnipotent.”
“I adjure Thee by Thy might, O my God! Let no harm beset me
in times of tests, and in moments of heedlessness guide my
steps aright through Thine inspiration. Thou art God, potent
art Thou to do what Thou desirest. No one can withstand Thy
Will or thwart Thy Purpose.”
“O Lord! Thou art the Remover of every anguish and the
Dispeller of every affliction. Thou art He Who banisheth
every sorrow and setteth free every slave, the Redeemer of
every soul. O Lord! Grant deliverance through Thy mercy, and
reckon me among such servants of Thine as have gained
salvation.”
DIWALI -
JAINISM
=========================
Thanks to Kirit Daftary and Yashwant Malaya for their
contributions towards understanding the celebrations.
(Regrets: Yashwant's Sanskrit script could not be
reproduced)
First by Yashwant:
Let me mention about Diwali in Jainism.
Diwali is among the two main Jain festivals, the other
being Paryushana.
In Jainism, "nirvana" is regarded to the the ultimate
objective. Lord Mahavira, the 24th of the tirthnkaras (who
establish dharma), attained nirvana.
The day of his nirvana marks the beginning of the Jain
chronology, and Diwali marks the first day of the Jain
calendar. The Vira Nirvana Samvat 2533
will start this Diwali. Traditionally Jain merchants
started their accounting year on Diwali.
The Kalpasutra of Bhadrabahu explains why
the Nirvana of Lord Mahavira is celebrated with lights:
Translation: On the amavasya night, 16 gana-kings, 9 Malla
and 9 Lichchhavi, of Kasi and Kosal, illuminted their
doors. They said: "The light of knowledge is gone, we will
make light of ordinary matter".
Harivamsha-Purana
written by Acharya Jinasena, composed in in 783AD,
mentions the term "Diwali" for the first time as a popular
festival in India. He mentions that Lord Mahavira, at Pava
in the Kartika month Krashna paksh, during swati nakshatra,
at the time of dawn, attatined nirvana. He further states
that
Translation: The gods illuminated Pavanagari by lamps to
mark the occasion. Since that time the people of Bharat
celebrate the famous festival of "Dipalika" to worship the
Jinendra (i.e. Lord Mahavira) on the occasion of his
nirvana.
For the Jains, Diwali is both a solemn and a joyous
occasion. It is celebrated with a special worship in the
Jain temples the morning. While it is celebrated with
feasts, sweets etc, some Jains celebrated it by fasting.
Yashwant
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From Kirit Daftary
Jai
Jinendra. Diwali is one of the few festivals in the world
that is significant to several religions and so many people
of Indian origin around the globe. Lord Mahavir and
Ganadhar Gautam attained Nirvana on the day of Diwali
which adds to its significance for Jains. On behalf of
JAINA, I am pleased to convey my Diwali greetings and best
wishes to all for peace and prosperity on this auspicious
occasion. Happy New Year and Sal Mubarak Vikram Samvat 2063!
May the lamp of love always light in our hearts and may the
festival of light bring in divine illumination in our souls.
Deepavali : The Festival of Lights - For Jain Followers
- Oct 21, 2006
Deepavali, the festival of lights, has a pride of place in
the history of Jainism. It was on
Aso Vad Amas (the dark later half of the
month Aso, the last in the Hindu calendar) at midnight that
Bhagwan Mahavir left his mortal coil in Pavapuri Village in
Bihar. On that auspicious day, he was a liberated soul.
Bhagwan Mahavir finished 42nd monsoon in Pavapuri and took
shelter in the office of king Hastipal's
talati (village accountant). Three months
passed and fourth was about to be over. Bhagwan foresaw his
end approaching and informed everyone about it. As soon as
the news spread, Pavapuri was plunged into gloom. Nature
also felt the impending doom, as it were, and looked
crestfallen at the thought of Mahavir's impending
departure. The cognoscenti said, "Be happy! God's a
liberated soul now! The shackles will break and He will
attain complete freedom". The common people began to grieve
: "Alas! the lord will be no more and we will not be able
to behold him anymore. When would we hear the divine speech
again? We are trying to dispel the encircling clouds of
gloom but in vain. Is it true that God will disappear from
our midst forever?"
The devotees were all grieving. "It is only yesterday that
he came in our midst and today he will be on his eternal
voyage", they said. They were not in a position to
rejoice. How can they when Bhagwan
was to leave this world? They argued, "For him death is not
a matter to be grieved over but how can we be happy at the
thought of his death? A night is a night, howsoever bright
the moon may be".
Bhagwan began his last discourse. It was a marathon one and
the world was bathed in the words of widsom emanating from
his lips. Indra, the chief of Gods, who had prepared for
God's death, lost his equanimity and was sad too.
The very thought of Mahavir's death pained him to no ends.
Indra, on behalf of the anxious people, asked, "Lord your
conception, birth, renunciation and attainment of absolute
knowledge were all in the
hastottara nakshatra?" Bhagwan nodded his
head in agreement.
"Your departure coincides with the entry of
Bhasmagraha in the
nakshatra. Does it indicate the impending
misfortune?", asked Indra. "Yes", said Mahavir. "You are
omnipotent and omniscient; can't you delay the moment of
your departure?" asked Indra anxiously. He thought that if
that moment passed then God would have a new lease of life.
Bhagwan, thereupon, said in a grave tone : "Indraraj, lust
blinds one. You love my body and hence your request. You
are knowledgeable and yet you forget that no one - God,
demon or a human being - can extend the lifeline by even a
fraction. The mission
for which I was born as a human being is accomplished and a
moment more here is a great burden to me. See Indra, there
is spring blooming and there is a new dawn of
sat, chit, anand. Welcome it."
The inmates of Bhagwan were trying to console the
congregation of people saying, "Bhagwan will not attain
nirvan (liberation) now. We know it for
sure." "How?" asked the people. They said, "We remember
Bhagwan once said to his pet disciple, Maharshi Gautam,
that he would not think of leaving the world without
him. Maharshi Gautam has been sent out by Bhagwan for a
religious discourse and he will not leave the world in his
absence. Have patience." People, on hearing these words,
kept quiet but Bhagwan was preparing for the ultimate
journey. He transcended
Badar Manyog and
Vachan-yog and rested in
kayayoga the last vestige of life on the
planet. The congregation looked, with rapt attention, at
his face, which shone, very brightly. Everyone appeared
tense, anxious. At last God transcended
kayayoga , and a luminous circle of light
appeared. The dark night of
amavasya brightened and whispers were heard
: Bhagwan has attained
nirvan . The lamp, which had shed its
luminous light and enlightened many a soul, had burnt out.
Indra, who had regained his composure said, "Light the
lamps. God has attained
nirvan ".
The dark night was aglow with myriad lamps but people were
eager to know why Bhagwan chose to depart in the absence of
Guru Gautam, breaking his own promise.
They felt they would not be able to live and decided to
undertake fasting. On the other hand the festival of
Bhagwan's
nirvan was on and the skies reverberated to
the sounds of
mridang and conch.
Mahavir had discoursed the day before his
nirvan and
kali chaudas, the day before deepavali, and
the discourse in found in the
aagam sutra Uttaradhyayan . That is why
Shri
Uttaradhyayan sutra is recited on the last
two days (kali
chaudas , and
amaas ) of the month of
Aso , the last month in the Hindu Calendar.
On
the night of
amaas - Deepavali day - devotees worship
Bhagwan Mahavir and at midnight special prayers are
offered. On the first day of the month of Kartak, the first
month in Hindu Calendar, Bhagwan's first disciple
Gautamswami attained absolute knowledge. People, therefore,
worship him on that day. Thus
kali chaudas, deepavali and the New year
day witnessed events of great significance, and some fast of
these days and undertake elaborate worship.
KARVA CHAUTH
=========================
Karva Chauth, also known as Karaka Chaturthi is a fast
undertaken by the married and the soon-to-be married Hindu
women who offer prayers seeking the welfare, prosperity,
well-being, and longevity of their husbands. Karva Chauth
falls about nine days before diwali on the Kartik ki Chauth,
the fourth day of the dark moon (Krishna chaturthi), some
time in October or November. It is the most important fast
observed by the women of North India. A woman keeps such a
fast for the well-being of her husband, who becomes her
protector after she leaves her parents home. Her husband
provides her with food, shelter, clothing, respectability,
comfort and happiness.
This is indeed a very tough fast to observe as it starts
before sunrise and ends after sighting and then simply
worshipping the moon, which usually rises at about 8.45 p.m.
or so.
No food or water is to be taken after 4 a.m. or after
sunrise. Nowadays, this fast is kept even in modern educated
homes, becoming a symbol of the sentiment that a woman has
for her husband. They do not drink water the whole day and
the fast is broken only after the moon is sighted through a
sieve. The woman touches the feet of her husband and he
gives her water and food.
The preparation for the puja should be started at about 4
or 5 p.m. Someone older, who is willing, or the housewife
herself as the situation demands, prepares a suitable place
in the puja room, in case it is a big room which can
accommodate all the women who have been invited for the baya;
otherwise the best place is a verandah or the open
courtyard, since generally the weather is not cold during
this season (in the northern hemisphere).
A sari (in the baya) is a must for the first Karva
Chauth of a girl. One thing to be taken care of is that the
baya reaches the girl's in-laws home, where the girl has
gone during the course of the day, before the evening. The
baya is given to the mother-in-law after the manasna. If the
mother-in-law is not present, then the eldest lady in the
house is presented with the baya. Sometimes, the elder one
chooses to take only the perishable items, and leaves cash
and clothes for the mother-in-law.
This traditional fast bestows happiness and well being of
the children too. According to a belief, on this day
Sateyvan, who had died at an early age was restored to life
by God Yama, at the lamentations and impressive arguing of
Savitri, Sateyvan's wife.
In some places, Siva and Parvati are worshipped on this
day. The only aim of this fast is to save the husband from
an untimely death and have a long married life. After
ablution and other daily necessities, and after taking bath
in the early morning, before sunrise, women should undertake
a vow for the welfare of the husband, sons, and grandsons.
Siva, Parvati, Kartikeya, Ganesha and the moon (Chandrama)
are worshipped. Their blessings are invoked. After worship,
rice, black gram pulse auspicious articles viz. comb,
mirror, vermillion, bangles, ribbon, etc. are put on a
copper plate or on an earthern plate, along with fruits and
kept ready till the fast is broken, after seeing the moon.
the fast is to be observed without even taking water.
It is a day of celebration and decoration. On the eve of
this festival, the markets are full of women preparing for
it. Mehndi stalls are set up in every corner of the market,
Bindi's, Red bangles and different types of cosmetics are
sold everywhere. Mother-in-laws buy 'sargi' for their
daughter-in-laws (after all they are going to be praying for
their son's long and healthy life!) This 'sargi' consists of
various types of sweetmeats, and sometime clothes. All these
items are supposed to bring good luck to the women.
There is great festivity on this day. Early in the
morning, before sunrise, the women bathe and gather to eat
the sweetmeats. They pray to Shiva and Parvati, hoping that
their married life would be as successful as theirs.
In the afternoon, mothers of newly wed girls give 'Baya'
to the parents of their son-in-law.
This Baya contains few Mathris, Almonds, and some gifts.
In every neighbourhood women gather together to perform a
puja and to recite the story of 'Karva Chauth'. Most women
are dressed in beautiful red or pink clothes and in
traditional Jewellery.
The puja place is decorated with kharia matti, which
has been soaked in water two to three hours earlier, and
takes a semi-liquid form. A chowk like in any other puja -
is decorated on the floor. This whole chowk should be placed
against a wall on one side, where a similarly decorated
patta is kept, on which the Gaur Mata is seated. The Gaur
Mata used to be made with cowdung in the shape of a human
figure, just about two inches tall. Nowadays, a picture or
an idol of Parvati is placed on the patta.'just about an
hour or so before moonrise, those who have observed the vrat,
dress up again in their chunris or in red or pink clothes
with chonp and bindi on their foreheads. Everyone now
gathers around the place where a carpet or durrie is spread
over the leaving space for the puja items.
Then a small pooja to Gaura Ma or goddess Parvati is
performed. Married women sit around Gaura ma and pray to her
for the well being and long life of their husbands. A small
pitcher or Karva with some water is placed in the centre.
While the story is being narrated, ladies circulate their
Baya thalis.
The baya of individual is kept on a thaali, over the
karva, with a little water and seven pieces of pua in it
(seven broken from one big pua). The karva itself is dee
with kharia, aipun and a little roli .A strand of (red
thread) of any thickness is tied around the part of the
karva. The top cover is also decorated in the thaali is
placed on the cover. The women sit facing the and one elder
member (there is no taboo on widow the family narrates the
story and does the chanting, each woman doing the puja. This
is known as man which means to give away and never take
back. First of all, roll teeka is applied on the forehead of
Gaur before the start of the puja. All the women doing puja
also apply roli teeka - tilak on their foreheads and parting
(known as maang). Everyone does pujan by dipping the third
finger of the right hand in water sprinkling it with the
help of the thumb three time the deity; the same procedure
has to be repeated aipun and roli and, lastly, the rice is
showered. depicts the bathing of the deity, decoration with
a putting of the teeka with roli and, lastly, worship the
deity with rice.
After the puja this thali is given to the eldest member
of the family who blesses the woman with all the happiness
in life.
Moonrise is eagerly awaited and everyone in the family
keeps a lookout for it. Once the moon is sighted, women
gather on the terrace and offer prayers to the moon 7 times.
They pray for their husband's and family's welfare. Then
they have a sip of water and in this way the fast comes to
an end.
In the evening, all married women, dressed in gorgeous
wedding garments and jewellery, undertake worship. As the
moon rises, they bow down at the feet of their husbands and
give the decorated plate with fruit and other material to
their mother in law. This festival deepens the relation
between the wife, the husband and the mother in law. In a
legend in the region now known as Maharashtra, once Arjun
went for worship in Nilgiri Hilllls. Draupadi, believing
that there was none to protect her in the horror stricken
forest, invoked Krishna. On the appearance of Krishna,
Draupadi explained her problem. Krishna explained that once
Parvati had expressed such a suspicion before Shiva.
The latter had then said that for a house wife, the fast
on Kartik Krishna Chaturthi was a remedy for such
apprehensions. Krishna further told Draupadi that once upon
a time, there was a Brahmin, who had seven sons and one
daughter. Being the only daughter she was married with great
pomp and show. On the Karva Chauth day, she undertook the
fast, but before the rise of the moon she felt hungry.
Seeing the pathetic condition of their only sister, the
loving brothers asked her to break the fast, but she did not
agree. Then the brothers reflected a mirror through Pipal
tree leaves. The sister, taken it as moon rise, broke the
fast and took food. Surprisingly, her husband died. The
daughter started crying. Per chance, Indrani, the sister of
Indra, was passing by with her maids. Hearing the cries, she
came to the weeping woman and asked her tale of sorrow. Then
she adviced that she should undertake the fast on every
fourth day of the month, for one year and undertake the
Karva Chauth fast under strict rituals, then only her
husband would come to life. Doing so, the daughter relivened
her husband back to life. Narrating this story, Krishna
consoled Draupadi and advised her to observe Karva Chauth
fast and assured her about the ultimate victory of Pandavas.
In Uttar Pradesh, on Karva Chauth, the married women make
idols of elephant (Indra's Iravat) and worship it, after
seeing the moon. Also in Uttar Pradesh, women decorate the
entrance walls of their home with drawings of Gauri Ma, the
moon and the sun. The evening puja is done with diyas -
lamps and a 'karva' pot made of mud. Before looking at the
moon, the women pray to the figurines at their doorstep.
In Rajasthan, the women make 'Karvas' with mud
containers, filled with rice and wheat. Most women wear
their wedding day 'chunris' on this occasion. In Gujarat
also many women observe this fast. In Madhya Pradesh most of
them follow the traditions of the women from Uttar Pradesh.
In all these states the first 'Karva Chauth' of any new
bride, or bride to be, it is a very important festival. New
clothes, new Jewellery and gifts from both mother and
mother-in-law are received. The wedding day outfits are worn
once again, mehndi is applied and the family gathers to
celebrate it with them.
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